True love part 2
Replying to the comment made by Chee Yong regarding the previous post:
When you experience a breakup, you will nonetheless feel excruciating pain because breaking emotional ties is never an easy task. The sense of abandonment, betrayal, and helplessness, like how a child being abandoned by his adopted parents because they feel that they are unable to care for him anymore, is always hard to accept.
It all boils down to the purpose of the relationship. If you love a person, you will want him/her to be happy and you will care for him/her and expect the same and nothing more. When you know that he/she won't be happy being with you, you would want him/her to find place where happiness could be found. But if the purpose and expectation of the relationship is more than truly loving the person, then the same could not be said.
The pain stems from the emotional detachment. Ultimately, if you truly love that someone, you would not want him/her to be unhappy.
When you experience a breakup, you will nonetheless feel excruciating pain because breaking emotional ties is never an easy task. The sense of abandonment, betrayal, and helplessness, like how a child being abandoned by his adopted parents because they feel that they are unable to care for him anymore, is always hard to accept.
It all boils down to the purpose of the relationship. If you love a person, you will want him/her to be happy and you will care for him/her and expect the same and nothing more. When you know that he/she won't be happy being with you, you would want him/her to find place where happiness could be found. But if the purpose and expectation of the relationship is more than truly loving the person, then the same could not be said.
The pain stems from the emotional detachment. Ultimately, if you truly love that someone, you would not want him/her to be unhappy.
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