Love...
I didn't manage to update blog frequently or even if i am able to, it's rather short. This is due to the heavy workload i am having these few days... Hope you guys don't mind...
Just for your infor, if you didn't notice(maybe my alert box not enough...), i have modified my blog. Isn't it better and more interesting?(Say yes...ahh... thanks!) Oh ya, did you notice the title bar with changing sentences? That's how i feel... I was inspired to write them down one day when i was pondering about life. Isn't it true? Many of us are troubled by love. What is love? Why is love so powerful? Why love sometimes give you more sadness than happiness? I am sure many of you have pondered about it in some point of your life.
I started to have a change in attitude in relationship. I realised that sometimes, you should not place too much expectation on the person you love. This is because, not everyone will meet up to your expectation and most of the time, you will be disappointed.
My view:
Love is an attractive force, sometimes one sided, between two person. The feeling of need for each other, sometime so strong that it will affect a person so much so that he/she does not have the mood to work. Love is about give and take. We should not ask for love, we should not ask the person you love to give you love, care, concern, time... We should give our love, care, concern, time to the person you love without being ask. Love is about making sacrifice. If you really love the person, you should not make him/her sad and hurt. Instead, you should make him/her happy and ensure that he/she does not need to suffer from hurt. Love is not about looking for maid or servent or even entertainer. Never ask him/her to do things for you, instead help him/her with you heart. Love is not about paying debt, do it because you want but not you have to. Do not take a person for granted. Remember, you contribution is never too good in a relationship.
These are some of the principles we should follow for a relationship to last. Hope it will help you in future!
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give--which is everything.
Just for your infor, if you didn't notice(maybe my alert box not enough...), i have modified my blog. Isn't it better and more interesting?(Say yes...ahh... thanks!) Oh ya, did you notice the title bar with changing sentences? That's how i feel... I was inspired to write them down one day when i was pondering about life. Isn't it true? Many of us are troubled by love. What is love? Why is love so powerful? Why love sometimes give you more sadness than happiness? I am sure many of you have pondered about it in some point of your life.
I started to have a change in attitude in relationship. I realised that sometimes, you should not place too much expectation on the person you love. This is because, not everyone will meet up to your expectation and most of the time, you will be disappointed.
My view:
Love is an attractive force, sometimes one sided, between two person. The feeling of need for each other, sometime so strong that it will affect a person so much so that he/she does not have the mood to work. Love is about give and take. We should not ask for love, we should not ask the person you love to give you love, care, concern, time... We should give our love, care, concern, time to the person you love without being ask. Love is about making sacrifice. If you really love the person, you should not make him/her sad and hurt. Instead, you should make him/her happy and ensure that he/she does not need to suffer from hurt. Love is not about looking for maid or servent or even entertainer. Never ask him/her to do things for you, instead help him/her with you heart. Love is not about paying debt, do it because you want but not you have to. Do not take a person for granted. Remember, you contribution is never too good in a relationship.
These are some of the principles we should follow for a relationship to last. Hope it will help you in future!
Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give--which is everything.
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